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Dear Blake

Dear Blake
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I grew up as most men did, being taught how to be a player, taught things like as long as you take care of home, it’s ok to do your thing in the street and neglecting the fact that the men giving these lessons were if not alone, had women who hated them. Unfortunately by the time we learn enough to treat our women the way that they should be treated, we find ourselves having lost a good woman and sometimes more. Like I told my youngest brother the other day, “it’s ok to commit young fella, aint nothing wrong with having one chick”…Brothers don’t wait until she gone, treat her right…Right Now!!!! So one day you don’t look up and she’s gone.

And so I got this note on the dresser….

She Said

Blake, I Love You But that Love does not compare to the love I’ve lost for you….That love is forever gone and can never be reclaimed….The memories of said Love is simply not enough….The Lies, cheating and the games…. hurt my heart and destroyed my trust…. it’s just too much….With my life I must move on, thanks for the poems, the good times we share, the love you still show….Yes I Love You but In-Love with you….I can’t allow myself to be….if it helps you any, you’ll always hold a special place in my heart….hopefully you feel the same, if so we’ll never be apart.

Love Always
5-30-2005

Lady

***took me 5 years to understand this letter. Tks

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  • Signifigant1
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    It’s really unfortunate that some men do not understand the value of a women. Especially a great women! I’ve been in this situation a few times and ask myself what is it about me that causes these men to act in such a way? I’ve realized that it’s not me. I know that I must go through some traffic lights before I end up to my final destination. That real man is out there for me and other women who have gone through the same thing. I commend you for writing this piece. We women must realize our worth and never underestimate it…xxxx Blake. ;)

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      I think sometimes we just need to take a deep breath…then pick it all and move on. I am so happy this paticular person left me that note. It changed my life.

    • lynnaima
      on

      lol, so she leaves and you take a deep breath and you move on???? lol
      translation: I could give an “f’ lady, walk on lol

  • jamie
    on

    What do you understand now that you didn’t understand when it was written 5 yrs ago?

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      Acceptance…

    • lynnaima
      on

      Tu as accepte qu’elle avait raison…that is who you are, well defined peut-etre?

      est-ce ca la reponse Mr. ProdG?

      ben bon! tu nous laisse a deviner lol

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      Lol.

  • Haitian Queen
    on

    It is hard to fall in love and stay in love when the man is still having fun and playing games. Love is such a precious word, an amzing feeling. There is so much behind Love that men don’t understand it until it’s too late. When you reflect on past love and past pain you may have caused you realize DAMN it wasn’t worth it but moments of pleasure destroyed someone u cared for.

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      i agree with you HQ

  • GODS SERVANT
    on

    WHY WAIT UNTIL SHE LEAVES TO UNDERSTAND HER VALUE? GREAT WOMEN ARE BEING PASSED ON LIKE PARTY CHIPS BECAUSE ONE WANTS TO PLAY WITH THE HEART, FEELINGS , AND WHO SHE REALLY STANDS FOR IN THE RELATIONSHIP. STOP PLAY AND START PRAYING!

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      valid point…but then again, this was 5 years ago

  • Drachoim
    on

    How did you finally come to acceptance?

  • SM
    on

    I’m glad you learned from your previous mistakes because many don’t, instead they just repeat them.
    As women, we must also know that continuously giving such men second, third and countless chances doesn’t help. I realized this 10 years ago and have since allowed myself to walk away from disrespectful, repetitive relationships and be alone (many people are scared of this and because of it accept what they shouldn’t) until I meet a man whose priorities in love are the same as mine.
    It is refreshing to hear a man come clean, admit his wrongdoings and change because of them. Good for you Blake. Hope you find happiness and mutual respect in the future.

  • Love
    on

    First, I want to thank you for teaching your little brother that there is nothing wrong with commitment. I believe that it is important that we teach our young men this in order to stop this vicious cycle that seems to continue for generations. Secondly, I want to commend her for walking away. I think that was the best thing for her to do. So often women stay in relationships because we don’t want to be or we are afraid of being alone. Finally I have one request of you please explain your answer to jamie’s question.

  • locs
    on

    Good for her! Not many know when to call it quits until it’s too late. As for you young man, perhaps a bruised heart or ego is what you needed to finally show some appreciation. Did it work any?

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  • krakrakra
    on

    Wow!!! So refreshing to hear, I’m glad you came to acceptance and allow yourself to just love. I hope!

  • Nem
    on

    I wonder, did you accept that she left you or that you lost a good women? I only ask because we tend to look at our past relationships for lessons. However, I got the feeling that you may have been mad at her and you’ve just now accepted that she is gone… Either way, a great lesson was learned.
    Good for you for introducing your brother to healthy relationship advice.

  • lynnaima
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    ” “it’s ok to commit young fella, aint nothing wrong with having one chick”…Brothers don’t wait until she gone, treat her right…Right Now!!!! So one day you don’t look up and she’s gone”

    Hope you heed your own advice Mr. P, treat her nice Mr. P, like a queen, make her feel special, be there for her, love her, treat her right Mr. P, treat her right, let the games rest, know who loves you and has your back aight!

    peace out!

  • Love
    on

    Hmmmmmm

  • Alexandra D
    on

    You never cease to amaze me. Each day I learn more and more about. Never knew you had so many different layers

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