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A friend I will be | Mr. Prodg: New Chapter!

A friend I will be

A friend I will be
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A wise person once said that hindsight is 20/20. That’s true in many instances including the end of a potential relationship. I am sure many of you have been attracted to this one particular dude/dudette and in the end she/he decided that you weren’t worth the time or maybe he/she felt too much of a “friendship connection” with you to mess it all up?  A few years back I found myself in a similar situation and though it was hard to accept yet I needed to have her around so I obliged to her request. 

It isn’t easy trying to be friends with a woman you are still attracted to or want to be with. However, it may be a blessing in disguise to befriend this person and understand him/her on a totally new level.  At first, it’s easy to let your feelings guide you into not considering the idea but rest assure that once everything calms down you will feel a lot more comfortable with the person. There is such a stark difference in the definition of a simple friend and a girlfriend that you may not feel you can emotionally handle seeing the woman you want in this context. You have to refrain from expressing how you feel; there’ll be no kissing on holding hands. However you should feel privileged that she has allowed you to remain in her life and that to me should be appreciated. 

I’m a believer that when two people feel something for one another, things happen naturally. Forcing a situation to happen can get awkward – especially when the two contenders in the romantic ring are friends. The last thing you want to do is ruin your friendship. So continue to spend time with him/her and keep building your already great relationship.  Things will happen when least expected; that’s if they’re meant to be.

Just continue to be there for him/her as much as you can and it’s ok to love that person regardless of how he/she feels about you.  Just continue to be yourself and remain positive.  Not everything you deem good for you is destined to be for you…accept whatever comes of it and make the best of it.  At least I did. J

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  • Maguie
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    Yep, that’s the only thing we can do if we want to stay in that person’s life. ;)

    • Marie-Yves
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      I enjoy reading your blog, You should write a book about your life, You have the power to bring these people to life through your memories….You’re a terrific writer!

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      well, thank you. ppl like free stuff so they won’t buy my book. so i guess its cool to post them here because its free to them.

  • Eksqwizit
    on

    I hope she feels(felt)(is feeling the same)

    I can’t be close friends with someone I love or am into, not for me unless we are far apart and speak once a year or so. That would be torture. It is not like we would be enemies just not that close., more like acquaintances. It is disastrous and will make it hard for me to move on if we remain friends. I would need to cut off the connection, move on and then when I am in a better place emotionally(basically with one who is loving me to pieces to make me forget him), then we could talk via email or something lol

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      till this day, i dont know how she ever felt but i did vow to be there for her regardless.

  • Eksqwizit
    on

    this will mean something if: “you are good at being there” in the ways that matter(ed) to her…perception I tell you!

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      i guess we will never know

  • Eksqwizit
    on

    she died???? I am sorry for your loss :(

  • lynn
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    like i always tell you, writing is one of the greatest talent that God has given you, please use it, and as you already know, i would have buy the book

    • Mr. Prodg
      on

      Thank you Lynn :)

  • Jenny Jacques
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    Oh my gosh I have been reading ur blogs old and new ones and I was walking in the house my head bended down into the cellphone . As I was reading I saw that one and I was speechless at the end . I even read the comments . Smhhhhh u are such a great writer . Love you my darling

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