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Kindness as Weakness

Kindness as Weakness
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I will never understand this statement–ever.

When I sense kindness in a person, I think “oh that person is like me; I would like to get to know that person”. The understanding that others could possibly sense kindness in another and think “geeez that person is such a wimp” or “wow how can I get over this person” is totally outside of my line of thought. That people would consciously, purposefully try to use and manipulate others, though I know this is the case for some, is mind-boggling.

I think people who see kindness as weakness are morons. Those are the kind of people I would avoid. I do not think I will ever be one to look to someone’s goodness as a flaw. Seeing others envy the morally corrupt is a sight I become blind to in disgust.

I am a kind person who believes in freely give, freely receive. I like to help and heal. No one can “abuse” my kindness because I only help as much as I desire to. There is no abuse where there is an acknowledgement of limited personal desire to be of use. As a believer in a higher power I serve humanity. I do for others because I want to. They may or may not appreciate it but when all’s said and done, I don’t live for everybody but for MY God.

Even in the extreme case, how can sacrificing for the sake of others at the expense of yourself be weak? It’s easy to do nothing. It’s easy to only do for one’s self, to look out for self. That sounds more “weak” to me.

 

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  • HaitianQueen
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    Wikipedia says Kindness – is charitable behaviour, pleasantness, tenderness and concern for others. So how is that being weak in any way? if you have a heart and you care for others noone can tell you your weak.

  • SM
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    I believe that kindness, humility and a charitable heart are signs of maturity.

  • Ley'Lha
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    Someone who views others Kindness as a Weakness is the Weaker individual, just the same as when kindess is taking for granted.

  • lynnaima
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    Basically you are aware that kindness is a weakness:
    “No one can “abuse” my kindness because I only help as much as I desire to. There is no abuse where there is an acknowledgement of limited personal desire to be of use. As a believer in a higher power I serve humanity. I do for others because I want to”

    It is because you are able to say NO. It is hard for me to say no when someone needs something from me and I know that I have it, despite the way the person asks me for it, or has abused my sincere kindness…that power to say no, makes you a strong kindhearted person, maybe but the lack of it makes it my weakness…If I have it and I can, it is hard for me to say no.

    “I don’t live for everybody but for MY God.” YEAH! your God is you so you live for you!!! easy peasy

  • pierre bashler dorival
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    Kindness is a wonderful thing to have. people who think that they are taking advantage of someone because of that person kindness are fools. God created us to be kind and loving toward each other. Nowadays people behave like animals toward each other and no respect for the fellow men. I’m believer in Jesus and I try my best to each day to try please Him.

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