I am writing this piece with you in mind; I am writing this piece because I need you to know that I am grateful for what we have; whatever it develops into would only be a bonus at this point ‘fore I am happy to have met you; happy to have kissed you and happy to have held you in my arms. So on that note, I hope you know that I miss you and cannot wait to see you again.
Ok, that was my intro…sorry folks. I couldn’t stop the thoughts from flowing. This piece was really inspired by a few quotes that I read on someone’s page. You may recognize a few of them because I am sure at some point and time we all used them to make a point.
Often I would meet people at a bar, an event, online etc and they would complain about being single and how devastating it is. I mean, are you really that desperate to find a mate? But if you are though, you can always order one from Russia or go to Africa and marry 10 sisters and build you a little empire. But on the real though, being single has made me ponder that maybe God wanted us to meet the wrong person before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. Maybe when the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. Maybe the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. Maybe it is true that we do not know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we do not know what we have been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Do not expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but if it does not, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Do not go for looks; they can deceive. Do not go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy. Always put yourself in others shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts them too.
The happiest of people do not necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you cannot go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and the heartaches. So make LOVE to the present and fuck the past!